What does elopement mean?
Elopement refers to the act of two individuals opting for a discreet legal marriage ceremony, devoid of the conventional pomp associated with weddings. This concept of an “elopement wedding” has gained prominence in recent years, likely due to various factors. Couples often find themselves crafting weddings centered around others’ expectations rather than their own preferences. Additionally, the considerable expenses involved in orchestrating a grand wedding, coupled with the desire for privacy, have contributed to the surge in elopement popularity.
One of the merits of an elopement lies in its flexibility to incorporate both traditional and non-traditional elements. This allows couples to curate their special day according to their envisioned blend of simplicity or embellishment.
Although planning a complete wedding can be daunting, elopements demand a lesser degree of coordination. While some planning is still required, it pales in comparison to orchestrating a larger event. Aspects such as choosing a venue, guest list, and incorporating personal touches remain relevant. Fortunately, numerous resources on wedding platforms can alleviate the planning burdens.
For those considering elopement, it’s important to emphasize that this choice does not warrant guilt or the need to meet others’ expectations. The focus should unreservedly be on the couple’s desire to wed in a manner that resonates with them.
In the Northland region, a plethora of scenic locations, including beaches and parks, offers ideal settings for elopement ceremonies. Such venues can be enhanced with customizable additions to make the occasion truly special.
Elopements defy rigid conventions, allowing couples to center the day around their commitment to each other while alleviating financial and social pressures. While an elopement may not conform to traditional standards, it retains its significance as a cherished moment of matrimony. It’s recommended to consider a distinctive attire and perhaps a bouquet to commemorate this extraordinary milestone.
At my charming 1905 School House residence in Titoki, Whangarei, I extend a heartfelt elopement package. This package entails minimal prerequisites – securing a marriage license and transmitting it via email. Upon arrival, I’ll provide the two legally required witnesses, a delightful mini wedding cake, a bottle of bubbles accompanied by “husband & wife” glasses as keepsakes, and, naturally, the official ceremony. The ceremony can take place in a location of your preference on the property, which features picturesque, landscaped areas, encompassing Totara trees, a splendid outdoor space, and a lovely, covered verandah. Photography can be facilitated by one of the witnesses, who excels in this role.
Upon successfully eloping, the subsequent steps are approached individually. Nonetheless, a considerate approach involves informing parents and grandparents first, followed by other pertinent individuals. A marriage announcement coupled with an invitation to a celebratory gathering can be a suitable way to share the joyous news and initiate the next phase of celebrations.
Congratulations on your decision to elope.
Are you ready to start planning your dream elopement? Contact me today to discuss your vision, get to know each other, and embark on this exciting journey together ~ Call me on 0275 878 227 or email hello@lisacelebrant.co.nz
